Elsie, Rome, New York (and Charlotte, N.C.)

My mother’s name was Elsie. She was born in Rome, New York and later lived with her husband and family in Rome, Pittsburgh, Babylon and Charlotte. They lived in Charlotte the longest and it was her favorite. She was a gentle, lovely woman with a wonderful sense of humor who set an example for her children by always demonstrating  kindness and respect, along with grace, to others.   

When seeing one of her six children being rude to an attendant at a gas station in Charlotte, she said: 

“The world doesn’t owe you a living so you can at least pay your way in politeness!”

- Kay

Vickie, East Palestine, Ohio

My mom taught me how to give freely of myself without asking for anything in return. She taught me to help those that are less fortunate and to be thankful for what I have. She taught me the importance of being honest and keeping my word. She taught me how to trust in God when things aren't going the way I think they should. My mom taught me how to love endlessly and unconditionally because that's how she loves.

- Laine

 

Shannie, New Orleans

My mom taught me - and continues to teach me- that every day is precious.  

Don't wait to do all the things you want to do because tomorrow may be too late (in other words, eat dessert first).  

Most recently, I've noticed that she's started drinking champagne instead of plain old wine at every opportunity. 

- Sara 

Frieda, New York

"Always buy good shoes."

My mother felt strongly about investing in fine shoes. An inexpensive t-shirt? Why not. Save your money for the well-made footwear. Even when I was still in braces with an awkward haircut, I knew to look for "Made in Italy" or "Made in France" at the bottom of a shoe. They're our feet, after all. They take us places. We should take care of them. 

- Marsha

My mom and I, mid 80's.